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Newport Manners & Etiquette: Umbrella Dos and Don’ts + More

Wednesday, April 02, 2014


Umbrella etiquette for April showers

Umbrella etiquette for April showers, what to wear when the dress code is "Party Chic," wedding etiquette, and who gets the money in the condolence card? All questions to Didi Lorillard this week at NewportManners.com.

Seven umbrella dos and don'ts

Not having grown up in a city, I can't make rhyme or reason out of how to navigate busy sidewalks holding an umbrella. Before I get an eye poked out, can you give me some pointers as to how to keep safe and dry, please? E.S., Manhattan

For your own safety, save the golf umbrella for the golf course or an outdoor festival and use an umbrella proportionate to your size: you shouldn't be over-shrouded. You want to have a clear sight of oncoming foot traffic, and cars when you're crossing the street.

Keep the umbrella closed until you're actually outside and unprotected.

For the safety of others, don't tuck a closed umbrella under your armpit with the ferrule (point) jabbing out in back of you as you walk, climb subway stairs, or wait for a bus.

The best way to navigate an oncoming crowd is to walk on the outside close to the street where you're less likely to be shoved against a building.

If you're tall, raise your umbrella when umbrellas come charging toward you; otherwise, keep your umbrella close to your skull, but not rubbing up against the stretcher (metal inside) so that it doesn't catch and pull on your hair.

Dispose of a broken umbrella in a trash can, don't just leave it on the sidewalk to become a runaway umbrella.

Gently shake and tap the umbrella before closing it and strap it in prior to entering a protected area; leave it in an umbrella stand, and not on the floor to puddle and stain a wooden entrance hall. ~Didi

Money from mourners

My father passed away recently and a card with memorial money was sent to me. Does that money stay with me or do I give it to my mother who is still living? S.M., Providence

The money was sent to you to defray any expenses you may have incurred during your father's death and memorial. If you don't need the money, then use it to help your mother with funeral and burial expenses, or to help pay off any debts. ~Didi

What is "Party Chic" for a work-related event?

My husband and I have been invited to an event at his work and the dress is "party chic". I have a knee length, off the shoulder black dress with embellishments on the shoulders. Would this dress be appropriate for the dress code? I have heard that other women are wearing pants, so I don't want to be too dressed up. Also, what would be appropriate dress for my husband. We are both in our late 40's. Thank you! H.M., Baltimore, MD

Chic is personal. For you, your black, off the shoulder, knee-length dress is chic. To someone else, pants are chic. It sounds as though you've found your own style, so flaunt it. I'm with you. "Party Chic" is a fun chance to wear a fashionable dress. Cocktail attire for a man is a jacket, tie, and well-shined shoes. Encourage him to wear what he thinks is a good combination. ~Didi

Gift Registering in groom's hometown

Is it proper etiquette or necessary to register for gifts in the groom's hometown, if you have already registered in the bride's hometown? D.P., Greenwich, CT

If the wedding couple is already registered with a chain (box) store, their registry is available on the chain store's websites countrywide. Most wedding presents are purchased online these days so there is little need to register in the groom's hometown. Customarily, the gifts are sent to the bride's address before the wedding and to the couple's address once they are married, or when they're already living together.

If there is a special store in the groom's hometown where your friends buy wedding gifts, have the wedding couple pick out a dozen or so items in a wide price range. Then, when asked where they're registered, you can steer them to a local store. In my opinion, this is not the kind of information you include in an invitation, but talking about the fact the wedding couple have chosen items at a store in his home town is good for the community. It's important to shop locally whenever possible. ~Didi


Do you have a question for Didi? Visit her at NewportManners.com. We can withhold your name and location. Didi researches etiquette and all matters of manners for her book,"Newport Etiquette." Previous weekly GoLocalWorcester.com columns may be found by typing in Didi Lorillard in the above righthand search.


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