Tom Finneran: Boston’s Brothers, Worcester’s Widows
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Friday, April 04, 2014
Tom Finneran, GoLocalWorcester MINDSETTER™
May the brothers, the jakes, and the widows find the peace that flows from lives well lived, hopes Tom Finneran.
A dark and melancholy cloud hangs overhead today. It has not budged in a week. No matter the news from the outside world—the arrival of April, Opening Day, Red Sox victories, stirrings of Spring—nothing seems to move the cloud.
The loss of two brothers
Our hearts are heavy. Our mood is sad. Our thoughts are with lonely and frightened families. We have lost two brothers.
Those who are in the fire service call each “jakes” or “brothers”. Theirs is a bond forged in frightful flames, crashing timbers, and constant danger. We, the civilians they serve, we sprint as far and as fast as we can, away from the horrid flaming scene. These jakes, these brothers, sprint into it. Always lots of guts, sometimes tragic heartbreaking glory……………
The funerals are spectacular pageants of brotherhood and loyalty. Yet the ache remains. I have known firefighters who died on the job. God does it hurt to remember. It’s as if one’s mind knows the tormented scene so well that it closes it off from active memory.
Memorable eulogies, prayers piled on prayers, flowers, cards, somber public officials, mournful private citizens all have their place in the process of burying these two brave men. It is truly right and just that the community stands with the families of the fallen.
Inevitably, necessarily, we will return to our daily toil. The world turns and waits for no man. And our return to daily routines is precisely what the fallen jakes would want and expect us to do…….to live, to laugh, and above all, to love.
It’s a morbid and heartbreaking thought to consider what we would be prepared to do if we could just grant the simple but precious chance for them to say a last goodbye. A long hug, a tender kiss for their spouse, a few brave words to sons and daughters, a final joke with brothers and sisters, a loving thank you to shattered parents………..there are lessons here for all of us.
Six firefighters, six widows
Once upon a time—the date was December 3, 1999—I was at a holiday event in Boston with some firefighters when word spread through the hall that there was “a big fire” in Worcester. Moments later, word spread that some firefighters were trapped in the building. Confused civilians milled about, some quietly praying for a happy ending. Purposeful firefighters moved quickly to their cars, their instincts honed to the needs of frightened families.
There was no happy ending that night. Six firefighters ended their shift in heaven. Six widows held on to their children and put on a brave face. An empty place at the head of the table, an empty favorite chair, an empty bed, and a string of sad and empty special moments---Christmas, Easter, Memorial Day, July 4th, graduations, weddings, newborns, all carrying the sharp pain of memories of those no longer here.
Our lost Boston brothers—Michael Kennedy and Edward Walsh—knew the hazards and stepped forward anyway. They helped save every single civilian in that burning building and they helped save their fellow jakes from the torment of death. They died so that others could live.
A happy ending
I’ll close with a story that has a happy ending, a story that sheds light on these special men, those who are living and those who have died.
The scene is Boston, the date is November 13, 2007, and the story is told by John Drake, a reporter for the Boston Globe:
“………….Boston firefighters Renard Miller, Joe Walsh, and William Kenneally then worked to rescue the boy and girl, believed to be about five, from the third floor. “When I got there a gentleman said there were two kids on the third floor,” Miller said. “I opened up a couple of doors and I heard a faint cry.” With dense black smoke surrounding him, Miller said he rubbed his hand along the bed’s surface until he felt a child. “The baby seemed lifeless,” he said. “The baby was just limp in my arms.”
He said he took off his mask and held it over the baby’s face. Miller said he then handed the toddler to Kenneally who carried him down along a stepladder. Walsh pulled out the girl who was standing near a window. “We all helped out,” Walsh said. “It seemed we were up there for a long time.” A happy ending, this time.
Remember those words—I heard a faint cry. The cry of a frightened child. Bravery poured forth, skill shown, lives saved. Quite a story. Quite a legacy. It’s not the only one. May the brothers, the jakes, and the widows find the peace that flows from lives well lived.
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